Fools make fun of guilt, but the godly acknowledge it and seek reconciliation.
A warrior wife remembers that she must not be proud, will keep no record of wrong, delights in evil and is not self seeking. ( 1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
When we feel wronged it just feels easier to point it out to our husband. instead, we must not point out his wrong but acknowledge it and seek reconciliation.
For we have become one (Mark 10:8). Therefore , the ultimate goal is reconciliation.